So I just ripped out my Secret of the Stole. I made a pretty bad mistake, and then each row after for about 8 rows the numbers wern't going well. Then I was looking at those who were really on schedule with the pattern, and I wasn't in love.
So I frogged.
I guess that is what happens when you don't know what you are knitting.
Oh well. I'll find a lace pattern I like. Eventually.